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StokedToBeASaucier
Master September 2017

Who pays for what at destination bachelorette party?

StokedToBeASaucier, on August 1, 2017 at 12:19 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 7

My girls planned a two night getaway at a beach town three hours away for my bachelorette party this weekend.

How does splitting money go? I've already heard one of the BM said she wanted to keep money low.

I'm bringing a lot of foods and am planning on paying for my own eating out and activities. Since they bought the trip, should I pay for the alcohol?

Seeking advice! Thanks again!

Edit: It's a 3-hour drive and we're driving. We were going to go to a liquor store on the way too and purchase some wine and champagne for the weekend.

7 Comments

Latest activity by Heartbweeps, on August 2, 2017 at 3:38 AM
  • Ms. B --> Mrs. L
    Super June 2017
    Ms. B --> Mrs. L ·
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    Are you driving? If so, you're already keeping costs low by doing that and offering to pay for your meals. You shouldn't have to pay for anything else.

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  • StokedToBeASaucier
    Master September 2017
    StokedToBeASaucier ·
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    @Mrs B and Kristin, we are driving and I already told the driver I'd give her money.

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  • Keisha
    Master September 2018
    Keisha ·
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    If they paid for the trip I would cover my expenses. If they offer to buy you a drink sure but everything else I would do

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  • Ms. B --> Mrs. L
    Super June 2017
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    @OP - then I think you're good. I had a destination bachelorette within driving distance too. I paid for gas, but nothing else for the rest of the trip.

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  • Ella
    Super August 2017
    Ella ·
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    I paid my share for travel, beach house, and dinner, same as the other attendees. we went out on saturday night and my friends bought my drinks. that seems to be typical at destination bachelorettes i have attended.

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  • StokedToBeASaucier
    Master September 2017
    StokedToBeASaucier ·
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    Thanks @Mrs. B! Good to know.

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  • Heartbweeps
    Super October 2017
    Heartbweeps ·
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    Everyone pays for themselves, unless otherwise stated

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