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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Who popped the question? You or your fiancé(e)??

Lynnie, on May 16, 2018 at 2:52 PM

Posted in Parties and Events 229

Time to spill about your relationship and planning habits!! Who popped the question? Was it you or your fiance(e)? Next Question: Who is in charge of the wedding budget? Previous Question: Who made the first move?

Time to spill about your relationship and planning habits!! Smiley shame

Who popped the question? Was it you or your fiance(e)? Smiley diamond


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Next Question: Who is in charge of the wedding budget?

Previous Question: Who made the first move?

229 Comments

  • S
    Just Said Yes April 2019
    Shakarime ·
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    She asked me in one of my favorite places to visit which is Atlanta in the place I love the most Cheesecake Factory
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  • Melissa
    Dedicated April 2019
    Melissa ·
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    He did...twice! Once in private with just us and then in front of family when I threw him a surprise birthday party!

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  • Jennifer
    Beginner April 2019
    Jennifer ·
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    He popped the question, and he did it in a way that was uniquely him. I wouldn't of had it any other way
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  • MrsJellybean
    Dedicated January 2019
    MrsJellybean ·
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    It was him! 😍 He proposed on New Years Day at midnight.
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  • AlmostAMurphy
    Devoted November 2018
    AlmostAMurphy ·
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    My fiancé proposed to me!
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  • Rachel
    Dedicated May 2021
    Rachel ·
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    FH proposed and it was perfect in every way!

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  • Shelli
    Savvy October 2019
    Shelli ·
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    He did at cape foulweather while i was yelling at whales to jump.

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  • M
    Savvy October 2019
    Marah ·
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    He did at a family dinner he had organized
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  • Katie
    Savvy August 2019
    Katie ·
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    He proposed --- in my favorite city. Still in awe of the planning that went into this.

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  • J
    Just Said Yes April 2021
    Jalissa ·
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    He asked me and my daughter at a picnic in my back yard
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  • maryann
    Expert June 2019
    maryann ·
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    He proposed to me

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  • K
    Beginner October 2019
    Katie ·
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    My fiancé took me bowling and had a few good friends there to surprise me. We bowled for a while and then the girls started to get antsy so FINALLY, he asked me. ❤️
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  • Jessica
    Just Said Yes June 2020
    Jessica ·
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    He asked me!
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  • L
    Beginner January 2019
    Lonnie ·
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    He did. I encouraged him a little.
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  • Rachael
    Savvy October 2019
    Rachael ·
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    Well he technically did ask me. I used to work in jewelry and the general rule of thumb is the guy is supposed to propose after three years of dating. Well we were at year five or so and not engaged. Needless to say my fiancé is a butthead and needs to do things his way and on his timeline. Which is fine I don’t really care either way. I personally think it’s up to each individual couple not what society says. So he was under pressure from family and friends as too when he was going to propose. He was driving me to work and he was venting about the whole society puts pressure on men about proposing. He then blurted out he wants to propose in the worst way but he wants it to be on his terms. I was very quiet and shocked. I hadn’t realized he was planning on actually doing it. So I innocently tried to ask if he would feel better if I just referred to him as my fiancé so people would get off his back. He was angry at my suggestion so then he said f*** it do you want to get married to me. I said yes so then he replied there we are engaged now change the subject. Well, neither of us really felt “engaged” but a year later my gram found her old engagement ring and gave it to us. Obviously, it went right on my finger and hasn’t left since. Ryan my fiancé was like so wait...we bought a house and we have a ring. Are we engaged? I told him it was up to him and that he may want to figure that out soon since I’m wearing the ring regardless Lol. We went out to dinner with the man I consider to be my “dad” and his wife. We were talking and she suddenly noticed my ring. Then my dad looked at Ryan and said are you marrying my daughter and Ryan said he was. Then my dad was like when were you going to tell me and I just said something like apparently it’s news to me too. We all laughed then Ryan and I suddenly blurted out simultaneously wait.....we are really engaged....this is going to happen. It didn’t really occur to us what we had told them at first lol.

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  • Hannah
    Devoted July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    He was the one who proposed!
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  • D
    Beginner October 2019
    Dacia ·
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    We both knew we would be getting married very early in the relationship, but he actually asked!
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  • Unavailable
    Dedicated January 2043
    Unavailable ·
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    My fiancé did. It’s so crazy because we were planning a trip to the beach with his and my parents. I suggested he propose on the vacation ( bc I had been hinting for months lol)Funny thing is he did & I still had no idea that he would. Complete surprise.
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  • futureMrsC
    Devoted March 2021
    futureMrsC ·
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    He popped the question. We talked about it, but the actual ask was a surprise on our cruise 😀😍
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  • Edward
    Devoted March 2019
    Edward ·
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    Edward popped the question. He slipped my ring on my hand while I was asleep and once I awoke he was there asking me to marry him. It definitely surprised me.
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