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Kelly
Legend October 2022

Who said "I love you" first? You or your fiancé(e)?

Kelly, on November 13, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 354

Those three little words can be scary to say for the first time!. With you and your fiancé(e), who said “I love you” first? Next Question: Who's more jealous? You or your fiancé(e)? Start from the beginning: You or your fiancé(e)? Round two!

Those three little words can be scary to say for the first time!. With you and your fiancé(e), who said “I love you” first?


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Next Question: Who's more jealous? You or your fiancé(e)?

Start from the beginning: You or your fiancé(e)? Round two!

354 Comments

  • L
    Savvy May 2020
    Leah ·
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    He did. It kinda surprised me since we hadn’t been together that long, but I said it back without missing a beat. I just knew.
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  • Katerine
    Savvy November 2019
    Katerine ·
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    During a special moment, he told me he loved me first and I immediately followed it. I’ll never forget this moment.
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  • Ginsteeca
    Expert June 2019
    Ginsteeca ·
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    I did after we'd been dating 4 months. He argued with me because he said it was too soon Smiley tongue

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  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
    Kelly ·
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    Lol!! I feel like you were in shock in that moment!

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  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
    Kelly ·
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    Awww so sweet! I feel like that happens a lot when you are about to leave somewhere, it just slips out!

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  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
    Kelly ·
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    Wow, that's amazing! Funny how life can bring you back someone from your teenage years!

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  • John
    John ·
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    She said it first.. It was strange we were at our friend's house all alone in the room.

    I think that it had to be me but still ) We've been living for 7 years together and I love her very much.. guys it may sound strange but I found here on my way to Arisona.I was trying to find travelers to save some money on fuel and wanted to find somebody to talk to)) so that's my story)


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  • R
    Beginner December 2019
    Rachel ·
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    I was shocked! Hahaha and a little nervous we were moving fast.
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  • Rita-Jean
    Devoted May 2019
    Rita-Jean ·
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    I love this question because my answer would have to be "it depends." Lol.

    I said it first, over text, platonically, a few months before we started dating. I told him how much I appreciated his friendship and whatnot and that I loved him. He said it back to me then, but again, it was platonically (at least on my end; not 100% sure of his feelings then, lol). After we started dating, he said it first, over text, to which I told him that I hoped he didn't get upset, but I couldn't let myself say it back to him until I was sure. FH being the wonderful man he is, didn't mind at all. Shortly after that, I was the first to say it in person.

    So technically, FH did. But we like to joke that it depends on if you mean first first (me), first after dating (him), or first in person (also me). Lol.

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  • Justin
    Just Said Yes May 2020
    Justin ·
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    She said it first. We were playing the holdout game of who could do it first and she slipped and said it
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  • Jessica
    Expert March 2019
    Jessica ·
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    My FH. We were laying in bed watching a show and he was drawing on my back with his finger and he told me to pay attention to what he was writing. So I did and he traced I love you. My heart was beating so fast. I love that man more than i ever thought possible
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  • Kirsten
    Dedicated June 2019
    Kirsten ·
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    He did. As I was falling asleep..and I started laughing but i didn't actually hear what he said. So I calmed down and was then fully awake I asked him repeat what he had said. I said it right back to him.
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  • H
    Just Said Yes November 2019
    Hannah ·
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    He did through text and in person
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  • Kristin
    Savvy February 2021
    Kristin ·
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    He said it first. He said “ I have something to tell you but do not know how you will take it”. I was like what did you do! 😡 He states I love you baby, I have loved you from our first conversation. 🥰
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  • Kat
    Just Said Yes May 2019
    Kat ·
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    I said I love you first and he said he knew I did and had for a really long time but he just couldn't allow himself to care for me in that way. I think it might have been a week later when he said he loved me and followed it by he couldn't allow himself to act upon it because of where we were in life. Fast forward 11 months and we're in a serious relationship. Fast forward 5 months from that and we're engaged and the happiest we've ever been. It was a wild ride.
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  • Karen
    Dedicated October 2023
    Karen ·
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    It was definitely him
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  • G
    Savvy May 2019
    gina ·
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    He said firstSmiley heart

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  • Hollie
    Beginner October 2019
    Hollie ·
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    I did. It slipped when we was saying bye to each other and I shocked myself. I started cursing inside my head because I thought it was way to early to say it and he had a shocked look on his face but then smiled real big and said I love you too before blushing and driving off quickly lol.
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  • mrsanda
    VIP March 2017
    mrsanda ·
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    Him!! After we laid in bed listening to The Fray and I left to go home he walked me to my car and told me then.
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  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
    Kelly ·
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    Awww, this made me smile so much!! Sometimes you just gotta say it and let it out!! Smiley smile

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