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Kelly
Legend October 2022

Who said "I love you" first? You or your fiancé(e)?

Kelly, on November 13, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 354

Those three little words can be scary to say for the first time!. With you and your fiancé(e), who said “I love you” first? Next Question: Who's more jealous? You or your fiancé(e)? Start from the beginning: You or your fiancé(e)? Round two!

Those three little words can be scary to say for the first time!. With you and your fiancé(e), who said “I love you” first?


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Next Question: Who's more jealous? You or your fiancé(e)?

Start from the beginning: You or your fiancé(e)? Round two!

354 Comments

  • Rachel
    Super May 2019
    Rachel ·
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    I did, almost a full year into our relationship. I knew 3 months in though. He didn't say it back until 4.5 months later. I knew he was hesitant to ever say to another girl again. He had his heart stomped on a few times and said it always went downhill after he said those 3 words. So, I was patient and just kept telling him I loved him when I was feeling him. And I told him that me saying it is in now way me pressuring him to say it or even feel it. I just want him to know how I feel.

    When he finally did tell me, on my birthday, it was the best thing ever. I'm so glad he is the last person I'll get to hear that first "I love you" from.

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  • HayMrsO
    Master October 2018
    HayMrsO ·
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    He did. It was the sweetest thing ever! He just could not wait.

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  • M
    Super November 2019
    Melissa ·
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    My husband said it first! And I'm so glad he did lol.
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  • Shinee
    Expert September 2018
    Shinee ·
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    I think it was me, though I honestly can't remember. But I'm pretty sure it was said over AIM or MSN messenger which is what we used to communicate a lot before unlimited texting was a thing, lol

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  • S
    Just Said Yes September 2019
    Shelby ·
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    He said it first
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  • Ashley N
    Beginner March 2020
    Ashley N ·
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    I said it first... “You know what, I think I love you.” The rest is history 🤷🏽‍♀️
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  • AlmostAMurphy
    Devoted November 2018
    AlmostAMurphy ·
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    He did, and I didn’t say it back until probably a month later 😂❤️
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  • Future Mrs. K
    VIP June 2019
    Future Mrs. K ·
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    He said it first and I didn’t say it back at first because I was just so shocked 😂
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  • AJ
    VIP September 2018
    AJ ·
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    My husband said it first. It was also the first time a guy had ever said it to me. He was also drunk and didn't remember saying it so I was very glad I didn't bring it up or say it back for a few weeks 😂
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  • Mary
    Savvy September 2019
    Mary ·
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    He said it literal seconds before I was working up the courage to say it!!!
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  • Nodyia
    Expert October 2020
    Nodyia ·
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    He did! He asked how do you know when it's the right time to say I love you! Now Im the one everybody comes to for advice and I sure was giving it to him I was talking and talking by the time I realize he was hinting at saying I love you to me. He starts laughing and said I love you good night!

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  • Madelyn
    Expert August 2019
    Madelyn ·
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    He said it first and then it took me a little bit to catch up to him, but I did and here we are now❤️
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  • Kelci
    Super June 2019
    Kelci ·
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    I said it first then he said it after.
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  • Danielle
    Expert August 2018
    Danielle ·
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    Now that was me a few months after we started seeing each other.in the heat of passion.lol..
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  • C
    Savvy October 2019
    Cady ·
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    Him. After a night of stress drinking from finals he drunkenly told me he loved me. I got upset because I told him he wouldn't remember since he was drunk, he promised me he would remember. The next morning, he waited until everyone was in the room and said it again which caused me to blush like a strawberry. Of course I responded, "I love you too".

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  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
    Kelly ·
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    Lol!! I would've waited until he said it too, don't want to scare anybody!!

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  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
    Kelly ·
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    That is so cute!! Sometimes it just comes out without you even realizing it!

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  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
    Kelly ·
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    Awww that's so sweet! You were probably so excited to finally share those words with each other!

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  • alysmw
    Devoted March 2019
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    My fiancé told me he loved me before we even started dating, and about 2 weeks in he told me he was going to marry me one day. I told him "yeah right, we'll see about that" and here we are 6 years later about to get married! I love him Smiley heart

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  • Jessica
    Savvy October 2020
    Jessica ·
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    He did! It was really cute because he was tired and accidentally said it when he stopped by my apartment to eat dinner. He ended up awkwardly hugging me and rushing out the door 😂
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