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Who said "I love you" first?

Maren, on August 14, 2018 at 11:05 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 117

L-O-V-E. Who said this magical 4 letter word first, you or your fiancé(e)? Smiley heart


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Latest activity by Hunter, on August 3, 2019 at 12:46 AM
  • Brandy
    Expert October 2018
    Brandy ·
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    He said I love you first, during our first out of town trip together as a couple. It was beautiful! lol

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  • FutureMrsKC
    Master January 2019
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    We sort of both said it together. We were having a really deep talk about our feelings for each other and FH kept saying what he loved about me without actually saying "I love you." I sort of looked at him and said "You won't say it first." and then he did and I said it in return.

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  • BB-H
    VIP September 2018
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    I said it first when we were falling asleep one night. I figured it was low risk because if he didn't want to say it back, I was half asleep anyway. Turned out he wanted to say it to me too!

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  • Tara
    Master September 2018
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    I did. He wanted to but i told him this time around i needed to be the one to say it first. I had felt like the other relationships where i had said it back, i only said it as soon as i did cause i felt i had to. I wanted to say it when i was ready and he let me do just that
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  • Brittney
    Devoted September 2018
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    He did! ❣️
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  • Kayla
    Expert January 2019
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    He did! I said it a week after that
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  • Amanda
    Dedicated November 2018
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    He said it first! I was showing him a new bathing suit I got and I said omg I love it and he just said omg I love you! I probably turned as red as a tomato!

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    Super March 2019
    Bailey ·
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    FH said it first, but I said it right back! It was low key, as we were laying in bed together watching tv.
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  • Mackenzie
    Beginner August 2019
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    He did, via Skype since we were long distance at the time Smiley smile

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  • L
    Beginner December 2018
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    HAHAHA this is probably one of my favorite stories because it's so ridiculous. I asked him where this relationship was going. Were we serious or just having fun basically is what I meant but he thought I was fishing for an 'I love you' and thought I would dump him if he didn't. So he said I love you first. I was shocked but said it back. We both definitely were not there yet. We discussed this about a year later and were both honest with each other that we lied. I've always wondered when it became true that we loved each other. Anyways...cracks me up!

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  • AGRowe19
    Beginner June 2019
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    He said it first. On the phone he was at he's friends house when he talk to me and just as he was finishing the phone call he said" love you talk to you later"! The phone went silent and I said " uh what did you say? He said " it slipped" but the next day we talked about it and he Confirmed what he said.
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  • T
    Super December 2018
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    I said it first. I am a bit impatient and have a tendency to mess up his grand romantic gestures. We were at a party dancing when I told him I love him. I learned later that night that he had planned a romantic setup at the hotel and was going to tell me when we returned.
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  • K
    Devoted December 2018
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    I did. We were on our first weekend getaway. It was snowing and we were walking arm in arm, no one else outside. It was so quiet and the snow all around us. We went back to the hotel and that's when I said it. It was after we spent a week apart because I went to Disneyland with my mom and kids for my birthday
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  • R
    Savvy November 2018
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    We had a really perfect moment to say it..... and I chickened out of my plan to tell him.
    Later that night we were on the couch watching TV and he told me. In its own way it was perfect.
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  • Jenny
    Savvy October 2018
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    He didSmiley heart He said it when I told him not to stay in Colorado just for me, which he did. But he didn't leave any room for a response, he just kept talking so I couldn't say it back until the next morning when we were at the IHOP

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  • Chris
    Master February 2022
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    Omg too cute!!!!! Smiley xd Smiley heart

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  • Amanda
    Savvy April 2023
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    Same here!! Smiley smile
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  • Jennifer
    Master September 2018
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    I did, but it sort of came out when I had a little to drink, not sure I would have said it had I not had some liquid courage.

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  • Heather
    Expert August 2018
    Heather ·
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    We were on one of our infamous drive dates, and he looked at me and said 'So are you going to tell me you love me yet?' Lol my response was 'well of course I love you! Why else would I be putting up with your s**t all the time?!' I think that's when it hit him I was wifey material 😂 true love is something, huh?
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  • Katelyn
    Devoted January 2019
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    I don't even remember haha but FH swears it was me
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