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Rebecca
Master October 2025

Who said "I love you" first?

Rebecca, on February 12, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 48

Who was the first person to drop the “L” word? How long had you two been together before it was said? Who uttered those three little words first? Photo by Megan Kuethen Photography in Chino Hills, CA Next Question: What's your favorite date night? Back to the Beginning: All You Need Is Love ...

Who was the first person to drop the “L” word? How long had you two been together before it was said? Who uttered those three little words first?


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Photo by Megan Kuethen Photography in Chino Hills, CA


Next Question: What's your favorite date night?

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48 Comments

  • Lauren
    Beginner June 2021
    Lauren ·
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    He did but it was NOT a romantic moment Smiley xd But the fact that it just kind of slipped out made me appreciate it more.

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  • Kiersten
    Beginner July 2019
    Kiersten ·
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    He did! We had been together for almost two months. I had the cheesiest grin on my face after he told me Smiley smile He told me at a Cardinals game! The fun part is, that same game we ended up on the kiss cam.

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  • Bryanna
    Beginner October 2021
    Bryanna ·
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    I said I think it’s to early to say this but I love you!
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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    Aw! Did your FS seemed surprised?! When you know you love someone, you just know!

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    No way! I've always wanted to be on the kiss cam! So cute Smiley heart

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  • C
    Savvy September 2019
    Christina ·
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    He did after dating for 3 or 4 months!

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  • Kiera
    Savvy August 2019
    Kiera ·
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    He did! We had been dating for 4 months. He knew pretty quick but it took me another 4 months to say it back to him. I wanted to make sure I truly loved him before falling again just cause I didn't want to get hurt like once before. So I surprised him when he got home. I filled his room with balloons and reasons why I love him with pictures of us. And I made a CD also that he would hear when he came home. He was in tears. Then on the bed was a card saying I loved him.

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  • Arkilia
    Super November 2021
    Arkilia ·
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    He did 3 most after we began talking... I took 6 months
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  • Nyikee
    Expert February 2020
    Nyikee ·
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    He said it first, 7 years before I would say it.

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  • Becca
    Super August 2019
    Becca ·
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    I did! Only because I thought I heard him say it and I was feeling it so I said I loved him...I was wrong about hearing him say it first, but he still said it back!
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  • S
    Savvy June 2019
    Sierra ·
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    I did. About 4 months into our relationship even tho I knew I loved him on day 1.
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  • Linda
    Savvy November 2019
    Linda ·
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    My FH was the first to say “I love you”. We were together almost 2 months before he said it. I immediately said it back because it was true!
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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
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    He did, and we wasn't happy about it! He realized he loved me while he was at work and couldn't concentrate on what he was doing! He had been married and divorced from a really horrible woman, and did not want to love anyone again, let alone get married! He jokingly calls me "Marie Lavoe" after the voodoo priestess! He says I cast a spell on him

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  • Katelyn
    Expert October 2020
    Katelyn ·
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    I said I love you first! He was scared to say I love you, but I knew I meant it when I went ahead and said it. Look at us now we’ve been together for almost six years (will be six years in October)
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  • Kristy
    Dedicated April 2019
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    Haha, definitely him. We were 18, so I played ALL the games... At that age, everyone knows you have to get the guy to say it first. It was about a month into dating. He said it in a text first, but I told him that didn't count so he said it out loud the next time we saw each other.

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  • Clairissa
    Savvy October 2020
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    Well if anyone read our backstory that I posted on another question this would make sense and maybe not seem rushed. But 4days after I met him. We’d spend basically all 4 days together, I’d sit at work with him and we’d go to lunch together and it was all just so amazing. Anyways we were falling asleep as he was holding me at the end of a long day and I said “I don’t know how you managed to make me fall in love with you so fast” and he pulled me closer and kissed my head and said “I love you too” and that was such a magical moment for me.
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  • Kara
    Dedicated June 2021
    Kara ·
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    I don't remember. I think me but i have no idea no i think it was him and i think it was within the first month of dating.
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  • maryann
    Expert June 2019
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    He definitely did, I was actually in shock when he first said it!!!.... It was about 3 months after we officially started dating and he has been reminding me every since...

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  • Gabriela
    Dedicated October 2019
    Gabriela ·
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    He said it first, it was the night after we had our first big fight too (6 months after we became boyfriend and girlfriend)
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  • Riley
    Expert September 2020
    Riley ·
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    I did 3 months after our first date
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