I am less than two months away from my wedding day and I haven't heard ANYTHING about a bridal shower from my mom, MOH, or anyone. I was under the impression that the bride does not throw her own bridal shower. I mean, our budget is tight with the wedding, I have no room to throw myself another party on top of everything else, plus I feel like it would look like I'm seeking attention. I did ask my mom if I'm going to have a bridal shower - her answer seemed more like she hadn't even thought about it, and we haven't talked about it since. At this point I would even be happy with a pajama/pizza party. It's just disconcerting to think I won't have a bridal shower, something that happens only once in a lifetime. I feel like the only time I've felt like anything wedding related was centered around me was when I went dress shopping. It's confusing because our wedding IS a big deal to everyone - so I don't know why people don't seem to care about me, even though I'm the bride. I'm not one to like attention, but it would be nice. Luckily my FH is so amazing, I know he would throw me a shower even if only the two of us are in attendance lol. I just want to know if anyone can relate to this feeling? -- this feeling of being pushed to the side for your own wedding.
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