Whose parents are more involved in the planning? Your parents or your fiancé(e)'s?

His mom has been a huuuuge help!!! She has a lot of expertise planning parties and we've had several wine and planning nights recently 🤗

After we told my mother we are getting married the next day she tells me that she NEEDS an invitation for one of her friends I was like mom we haven't done the guest list yet

We get married in October next year so we will know for sure then but I don't think it is a scam and the travel agency my mom went to doesn't believe it is one either.

Ugh. Neither. And that makes me sad.

I will say my side of the family was more involved with the wedding planning.to me his family didn't care..

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Aww I'm sure she is so excited to help this time around! That's awesome that your sister has been able to help you find those more budget friendly vendors!

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Lol!! Are you happy to have them up in everything?

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I totally understand that! I'm sure they are happy to give their opinions whenever asked! That's so nice of them to help you all out and not have any strings attached to it!

I’d say his parents (specifically his mom), but probably because they are closer. My parents live out of the state so I will call for opinions and stuff, but there isn’t a lot of hands on stuff they can really help with.

Definitely mine! His dad passed away last year, and his mom couldn't care less about our wedding.

If have to say his mom is..my mom lives in NC (I’m in FL where his family is) so she knows the area and has more connections.

Both of our parents are pretty involved thus far. I try to keep it kind of even. I do tend to send a lot of ideas to my sister and my mom though.

Mine ! My parents are paying for the venue and band so they arw more involved. His mom asks all the time about things but him being a man brushes her off. She rarely hears about plans unless she talks to me 🙈

We didn't involve our parents in the planning. It would've caused way too much drama

I would have to say my mom was the most involved. She helped me pick out my dress and jewelry. His parents weren't involved at all but his mom has been battling brain cancer for the past couple of years. Her short term memory is gone and a year after the wedding Everytime we see her she says noone told me you got married then smacks my husband and says how did you con her into marrying you? It's sad but sweet all at the same time.

Probably my parents for now but I'm sure his family will step in later.

Neither parents are involved right now

His step mom mainly. My mom is but she has more priorities at the moment

My family definitely... My mom is doing the decorations and my dad and his side of the family are doing all the catering. So yes My family is way more involved

Both sides are equally involved and are willing to do everything for us include paying it all.