My husband and I have been wanting to do a vow renewal ceremony similar to a wedding ceremony ever since we got married.
We had a sweet courthouse ceremony with immediate family in San Diego where he was stationed (active duty military). But it wasnt our dream wedding. He almost wasnt even able to get away with a courthouse one, why would we waste money on a venue, vendors, etc. 6 months to a year in advance just for his command to say "no, you cant leave" right?
Well fast forward 3 years, we are thinging about having a big vow renewal celebration at our 5 year mark, and no one seems remotely interested when I tell them our plan...
It would mean alot to both of us, but the feedback we get from our family is like "but you got married", "the important people were there".
So my once dream is now turning into a why bother?
I feel crushed that no one cares.
Is it so bad for us to want to have the ceremony we wanted with ALL of our family there?