Today is yet another day that I am completely frustrated that my FH doesn't care about the wedding, and doesn't think he has to. It would be one thing if it were an event that had nothing to do with him--but it does! He wants to do nothing above the minimum amount of effort, and has had nothing to do with planning. The one thing he was supposed to do (book the caterer) could've been done MONTHS ago, but he is dragging his feet since he wants to do it "at his pace".
He's normally such an empathetic and understanding person, so this is very confusing to me. The most I get out of him is a "sure" or a head nod to my suggestions. I guess it's nice to get virtually whatever I want when it comes to planning, but because I am mostly alone in planning, it's super frustrating.