Ugh so my entire life, I've had this horrible case of insert foot into mouth ... and am always saying things that sound good in my head, nice even but come out sounding like I'm some type of Monster .... LOL
For example, I said to my Mom, the other night, "No you don't get a lot of say in this wedding, you simply take John's and my ideas, and go with them and write the check ... which now reflecting back on it, sounds horribly mean and rotten and bridezillaish, when I was trying to get across, no it's an eqaul partenership, FS and I get and my mom and dad's and his parents ideas wel all take and mold them together to come up with our idea ...
And then I told my FS, yes I was dissapointed you went out with your friend after I left the bar last night with my bro in tow and it came out all like controlling and then the things I say to my friends, when something is horirbly wrong in their lefe, it all coes out like I'm some sort of heartless biatch ... anyone esle have this issue?
