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Maren
Champion October 2021

Will the bride stand on the left side?

Maren, on January 15, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Wedding Ceremony 89

Traditionally, the bride stands on the left side of the altar for the wedding ceremony so that the groom can use his right hand in case he needs to fight for his bride, should someone try to steal her away last minute on the wedding day! Thankfully the kidnapping part of this tradition died long...

Traditionally, the bride stands on the left side of the altar for the wedding ceremony so that the groom can use his right hand in case he needs to fight for his bride, should someone try to steal her away last minute on the wedding day! Thankfully the kidnapping part of this tradition died long long ago, but brides still keep up the tradition of standing on the left side.

Which side are you going to stand on for your wedding ceremony? Are you doing or ditching this tradition?

If you’re a same-sex couple, how are you deciding which side to stand on?

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Photo by Momentous Image in Seattle, Washington


Thank you, next (tradition): Are you ditching the traditional wedding party?

Back to the beginning: Which wedding traditions are you ditching?


89 Comments

  • Kk
    Beginner March 2019
    Kk ·
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    Never heard that story before. Hilarious! Probably staying on the left only because everybody expects it. Smiley laugh
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  • Megan
    Expert November 2022
    Megan ·
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    Omg such a good point!!
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  • C
    Beginner October 2019
    Courtney ·
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    Keeping tradition
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  • Kathy
    Beginner June 2019
    Kathy ·
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    Didn't know that but yes.

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  • S
    Beginner March 2019
    Sierra ·
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    Didnt know there was another choice
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  • M
    Beginner May 2019
    Montana ·
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    Whatever looks best at rehearsal!

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  • Victoria
    Dedicated March 2019
    Victoria ·
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    Yes we are keeping this but had no idea there was a story behind it.

    What if the groom is left handed though? lol.

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  • Laura
    Devoted October 2019
    Laura ·
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    Sure, I’m going to follow this one!
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    Savvy September 2019
    Danielle ·
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    Keeping this one!
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  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
    Kelly ·
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    I hadn't either! But I feel the same way, will probably keep this one!

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  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
    Kelly ·
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    Lol!! I didn't even think about that!

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  • Lindsey M.
    Dedicated September 2018
    Lindsey M. ·
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    We kept this tradition but I thought it was weird that it was a tradition at all! Now it totally makes sense. Lol! Cute.
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  • maryann
    Expert June 2019
    maryann ·
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    Ok I never knew that was why we stood where we stood. Very funny, but yes I am standing on the left... No one please don't try and steal me Smiley smile

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  • maryann
    Expert June 2019
    maryann ·
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    Hahahahahaha that is a very good question. I guess the bride would be stolen. I cant even believe there is really a story behind that. I just figured that's were we stand

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  • L
    Beginner June 2019
    Lorece ·
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    Based on how I wear my hair I will probably be on the right. It is my better side. I never knew it was a tradition.
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  • Kristine
    Beginner July 2019
    Kristine ·
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    Probably, not sure

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  • Gabriela
    Dedicated October 2019
    Gabriela ·
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    We’re going to stand where the priest tells us to stand.
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  • ChefKait
    Devoted December 2019
    ChefKait ·
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    Kind of funny- I guess we will probably keep it, no reason to change it?

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  • Jasmine
    Master August 2021
    Jasmine ·
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    Wow. Didn't know there was a story behind it. I'm going to keep it anyway.

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  • Jacque
    Dedicated July 2019
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    Truthfully haven't even thought bout it.. I guess however the venue is set up
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