Will you be calling your in-laws "mom" and "dad"?

Maybe ask your FH what he thinks if you’re too nervous to approach MIL about it? It’s so funny that you say that, because my moms godmother is my Grams’ best friend and my grandma tells my sister and I that we should call her “kristamama” which is Slovak for godmother instead of by her first name. We refuse because she’s not our godmother and it’s direspectful to our actual kristamamas so when forced to address her we call her “excuse me” 😂
I call my MIL ma, and she calls me her daughter, especially since she knows I don’t have a relationship with my parents. But I don’t call FIL dad it just feels weird and I avoid addressing him directly at all costs. Or maybe sit down with MIL about it and be honest and say you don’t want to mean disrespect and ask what she would like to be called.

My ILs once asked me to call them Mom and Dad (out of no where, it was a total curveball and super awkward) and I told them I could never do that because I have a Mom and Dad. I just call them by their first names, if I use a name at all.

I call them by the first names and I will absolutely never be calling them mom or dad.

Honestly I don't think I have ever directly referred to them in a way I needed to use their name or anything.... when I talk to other people I call them my inlaws. When they sign cards and stuff to me for my birthday or anything they always sign mom and dad. I think the one time I may have said something to them I may have used their first name... lol

I call my FILs by their first names. My dad calls my Granna (my mom's mom) "Mom". She's been a mother figure for him, and his mom died when I was really little. He calls her by her name sometimes but usually calls her "Mom".

I'm not really comfortable calling my FMIL "mom." I will just continue to call her by her first name until we have children, then I will refer to her as whatever they call here.

I call them by their first names but there are usually grand-kids around (8 and 20) who call them granny and pop-pop so that's typically what we call them when they are around.

I will not. Married or not, they aren’t my parents and they never will be.

I could never call any other woman mom because no other woman treats me like I’m her daughter. I call my FMIL by her first name and put a “Ms.” I’m front of it.