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Will you sleep separately the night before the wedding? Or are you ditching this tradition?

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Kelly, on January 15, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Traditionally, couples spent the night before the wedding sleeping in separate beds as a “last night alone” and so that you don’t wake up and see each other before the ceremony! What are your sleeping arrangements for the night before the big day? Are you doing or ditching the tradition of sleeping...

Are you doing or ditching the tradition of sleeping separately?

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Dedicated October 2019
Gabriela · on March 15, 2019 at 3:45 AM
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Yes, we actually won’t even be living together until after the wedding.
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Devoted December 2019
ChefKait · on March 15, 2019 at 10:55 AM
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Nah- I've heard you should have sex the night before because the night of you are waaaay too tired. We also have to have the rehearsal on the morning of the wedding anyway so we will be seeing each other that day.
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Devoted December 2019
ChefKait · on March 15, 2019 at 10:56 AM
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Girl- do what YOU want to do! Its an outdated tradition and if there isn't a real reason for it then you do you! I'm the same, I hate sleeping apart from him and we've really only slept apart a handful of times in the last three years we have lived together.
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Devoted September 2019
Katelyn · on March 15, 2019 at 11:20 AM
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MY FH and i wont be living together until after our wedding!
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Master August 2021
Jasmine · on March 17, 2019 at 10:44 PM
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It's not something we thought about but I doubt we're going to sleep separately. Then again, maybe we will. Definitely have time to think about it.
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Dedicated October 2019
Ana · on April 18, 2019 at 11:23 AM
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I think we will do this just because I will have family over so I can have a cousins sleepover!
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Just Said Yes June 2019
Kenzie · on April 22, 2019 at 6:21 PM
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Sleeping Separately! On opposite sides of town as a matter of fact!
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Dedicated October 2023
Karen · on May 14, 2019 at 9:23 AM
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We're sleeping together, and the groom will be allowed to see me in my dress before the wedding.
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Expert October 2020
Natalia · on June 13, 2019 at 6:44 PM
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I think this one we will keep! I know he does not want to see me before the ceremony so that sounds like a great idea! I might just stay at a hotel or the bridal suite with my MOH and bridesmaids.
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Legend June 2019
Melle · on June 25, 2019 at 7:01 PM
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Ditching! I wanna spend my time with him even before the wedding
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Master January 2021
Andrea · on July 8, 2019 at 10:29 PM
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We will most likely sleep together the night before (we have been living with each other for years, after all) but in the morning, he'll probably go to the best man's house.
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