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Rebecca
Master October 2025

Will your father escort you down the aisle? Or are you ditching this tradition?

Rebecca, on January 15, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Wedding Ceremony 127

Are you staying traditional and walking down the aisle with your father? Will you mix up this tradition to include another family member? Or are you completely changing it up and walking down the aisle solo? Will your father walk you down the aisle or are you ditching this tradition? Photo from...

Are you staying traditional and walking down the aisle with your father? Will you mix up this tradition to include another family member? Or are you completely changing it up and walking down the aisle solo?

Will your father walk you down the aisle or are you ditching this tradition?


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Photo from Showtime Events in Santa Rosa Beach, FL


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127 Comments

  • Kim
    Just Said Yes July 2019
    Kim ·
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    No unfortunately my father has passed but my older brother is walking me
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  • B
    Just Said Yes March 2019
    Bridget ·
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    I don't have a good relationship with my father. So my father in law will be walking me down the aisle. He's going to be so cute in his top hat and cane!
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  • T
    Beginner May 2019
    Trisha ·
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    Going traditional with this one. My Dad is the sentimental one in the family, much more so than my Mom, and I know he is excited for this. My fiance would be happy to do nothing in a traditional manner, but I put my foot down about my Dad walking me down the aisle, and the father daughter dance. I'm very close with my parents and they are as excited for the wedding as I am!

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    Aw this is so sweet! I'm sure walking you down the aisle is going to be a big moment for both of you!

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    A top hat and a cane?! I love it Smiley heart

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    I'm so sorry for the loss of your father. That's so sweet that you're older brother is stepping in though!

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  • latasha
    VIP September 2019
    latasha ·
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    Sadly my dad passed away a year ago so I won’t be able to have this honor. My brother in law will be walking me down. He’s very special to our family. Has always been like a second dad to me and has stepped up as the patriarch of our family.
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  • Valarie
    Just Said Yes April 2019
    Valarie ·
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    No - this is my 2nd wedding...he walked me down the aisle the first time...and it was lovely. This time is all about my FH and me. he will walk down the aisle on his own and I will walk down the aisle on my own...we have picked some fun music for each of us to 'walk' to.

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  • J
    Devoted April 2020
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    Yes! ❤️ But I might ask my mom to escort me too. My FFIL is officiating, FMIL will escort FH down the aisle, & my dad will walk me so I want my mom to be included too.
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  • Krissa
    Beginner October 2020
    Krissa ·
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    My father passed away 2 years ago so I'm letting my oldest son walk me down...Smiley cry
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  • Unavailable
    Dedicated January 2043
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    Definitely sticking to tradition.
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  • Rebecca
    Master August 2019
    Rebecca ·
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    We are super close, so yes, he'll be walking me down the aisle. FH and I took a picture at his church on Christmas (before we were engaged... but I knew it was coming), and I sent it to my dad. Warned him it's a really long aisle (it's a big church) and laughed.

    He's 110% going to cry, because my dad is an adorable mush.

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    Aw this makes me smile! That's wonderful that you have such a strong relationship with your dad. Maybe you two could start training together for the long walk down the aisle hehe Smiley tongue

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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    What an amazing way to include and honor your children! Smiley heart

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  • Kendra
    Devoted September 2019
    Kendra ·
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    Yes he is going to walk me down the isle! Smiley smile
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  • Rachel
    Savvy July 2020
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    I love this idea! My mom and I are really close, I think she'd be touched if I asked her to walk me as well.

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  • J
    Devoted April 2020
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    My mom & dad are walking me down the aisle. I’m also asking the officiant not to say “who gives this woman to this man?” Idk, that line just bothers me because it makes me feel like I am property in the midst of some creepy patriarchal exchange (which is technically what that line originally meant). So I’m asking him to say “who blesses this marriage?” So it sounds more like my parents are saying how happy they are instead of an exchange. I’m also not wearing a veil for that reason. I just don’t like the symbolism behind the veil.
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  • Stephanie
    Dedicated May 2022
    Stephanie ·
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    My dad is walking me down the isle. Its something that means a great deal to me and ive been looking forward to it since i got engaged in October.
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  • A
    Just Said Yes August 2019
    Amber ·
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    He will definitely walk me down the aisle
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  • Arkilia
    Super November 2021
    Arkilia ·
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    Definitely doing this one... I am super close to my dad, so I'm excited about this
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