So I've had 2 hair trials with my normal stylist. She won't be doing my wedding hair because we're having a destination wedding. Less than 3 weeks out, I'm starting to freak out. So, I need advice. I am getting married on a beach in Hawaii on the windy side of the island. We're having a *formal* beach wedding, which is unusual, I'm aware. I'm wearing a ballgown style dress, FH and all GM are in 3 piece black tuxes, etc. I feel like my stylist did a good job mimicking the photos I showed her, but I hated how it looked on me. Basically, they just look way too casual and frizzy. I'm really not sure what to do. 1) I want to wear a barrette and will have a veil for the ceremony, and my favorite hairstyle is half up half down. I do NOT want an updo. So far, my favorite look was from my engagement photos, however, which was just down and curly. (On an extremely windy beach). No idea how a veil would work with that though?2) I hate when there is a "bump", which is very trendy now, and it makes your hair tall3) I have no idea how my hair isn't going to just immediately fall flat, because it did in a dry climate with no wind almost immediately 4) I know my hair will fall and relax, which is fine, but I hate when my hair gets frizzy. Yes, I have frizzy prone hair on a humid windy beach, so that's a thing. But my engagement photos weren't frizzy at all, while my hair trials were immediately frizzy.5) My wedding HMA is scheduled to start me at 12pm. I need to be done at 1. Is that enough time for both hair and makeup? I'm getting nervous there won't be time if I don't like it, need her to adjust, etc. Like there's no buffer. My first bm starts at 9.
So, should I keep doing hair trials? Anyone have any better hair suggestions or solutions? Can/should I ask to go earlier?
Pics of engagement photos and trials and original inspiration pics
![Windy Beach Wedding - Need Hair Help 1](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/8/0/7/7/cfb_1360523.jpg)
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![Windy Beach Wedding - Need Hair Help 4](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/8/0/7/7/cfb_1360529.jpg)
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![Windy Beach Wedding - Need Hair Help 8](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/8/0/7/7/cfb_1360543.jpg)
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