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Leigh
Dedicated January 2020

Winter wedding schedule

Leigh, on January 19, 2019 at 9:10 AM Posted in Planning 0 8
We’re planning a January 18, 2020 wedding and I’ve realized I need to take light into account. I had been thinking a 4 pm wedding at our church followed by a 5ish reception at our venue. Two things concern me 1) light for pictures and 2)we’re getting married near the mountains and a big part of the venues are the beautiful views. We can take pictures before the ceremony, but I’m wondering if it would be too weird to start the wedding at 2:30 and have a cocktail reception starting at 3:30ish with a pretty early dinner (maybe 5?). The wedding would end earlier, but we’re not looking to drink all night so that wouldn’t be awful. My FH is against it, mostly because he thinks our guests wouldn’t like it. Any thoughts? How have other people scheduled winter weddings?

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Latest activity by Joany, on May 2, 2019 at 11:11 AM
  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
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    I have a late November wedding in the mountains and the sun sets at 5:18pm. My ceremony is at 3:00pm, cocktail hour and family/couple photos between 3:30-4:30pm. That gives us some wiggle room, and also it gets darker in the mountains before the sun sets if the sun is behind the mountain, so it depends on where you are standing. Our entrance will be at 4:30 and the buffet will open. Reception ends at 8. I don't want it to run too late anyway because it's a Sunday and it'll be cold and dark. I'm getting a shuttle, but also I don't want people drinking and driving in the dark mountains late at night. Hopefully they will just use the shuttle anyway if they're planning to drink a lot.

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  • Leigh
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    Thank you!!! Those are all my concerns. Really glad to hear how someone else is handling it.

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  • Megan
    VIP January 2019
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    I got married January 4th in the mountains in Colorado. We had a 3pm ceremony, cocktail hour began at 3:45. Dinner was at 5. We ended up having dinner be about 20 minutes late because the sun actually didn’t set and turn the sky on time lol. It was crazy. But worth it for the photos. What you do will be heavily influenced by if you’re doing a first look. We didn’t, so had to leave time for photos afterwards. If we had, we would’ve done a sunset wedding.
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  • Leigh
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    Thanks you!
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  • L
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    I think you should discuss with your photography about timing of photos. As a guest, I wouldn’t be opposed to an earlier ceremony, I’ve been to weddings anywhere from 11am-5pm. Especially if it will be cold later
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  • Courtney
    Master December 2019
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    I would also talk to you venue about starting that early, they may not allow it due to logistics.

    For instance we've having a Saturday wedding in December and our venue will not allow us to start our ceremony until 6pm; and the earliest we can arrive for setup and photos is 3pm. Our venue is a community golf course and they have an obligation to members who would like to use the facilities as well as time to prepare our food, set up tables and chairs, etc.

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  • earias
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    Our wedding was in December. We did a first look which allowed us to take most of our pictures before the ceremony and then a few more afterwards. This was our timeline:

    9 a.m. Bridal party get ready in bridal suite; breakfast and lunch served

    12:30 p.m. Photographer arrives for detail shots and getting ready shots

    1-1:30 p.m. First look

    1:30-2:45 p.m. Wedding Party and VIP pics

    3-4 p.m. Ceremony

    4:15-5:45 p.m. Cocktail hour (wedding party and VIPs took more pics during this time and joined cocktail hour around 5 p.m.)

    6-7:30 p.m. Dinner served

    6:05 p.m. Welcome toast by bride

    7:30 p.m. Bridesmaid's toast on behalf of wedding party

    7:45 p.m. Cake cutting

    7:55 p.m. First dance (after 30 seconds invited everyone to join us)

    8 p.m. Dance floor open; photo booth open

    8:30 p.m. Cake served

    9 p.m. Smores served around the fire pit

    10 p.m. Grilled cheese sandwiches served

    11 p.m. Last dance; end of reception

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  • Joany
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    We're getting married on 1/25/20 in southeastern Pennsylvania. Our venue is a hotel, we are doing everything (ceremony, cocktail hour, reception, afterparty) at the hotel.

    5:30pm Ceremony

    6:00pm Cocktail hour

    7:00pm-11:00pm Dinner & Reception

    11:00pm-2:00am Afterparty at hotel pub.


    I too am worried about lighting for pictures, and am considering we take all outdoor photos before the ceremony. That way we should be able to enjoy some of the cocktail hour as well!

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