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WORST MAID OF HONOR EVER

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Alison, on June 20, 2010 at 11:28 PM

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This is my vent: I officially hate my maid of honor. She is supposed to be my best friend and she SUCKS at it. If she didn't want to be MOH she should have just told me. Did she come to the cake tasting? NOPE. TOO BUSY. Did she come to pick out the dress? NOPE. TOO BUSY. Did she come to the first fitting and will she come to the second? NOPE. Is she throwing me a shower? Yes, but she wanted to have it at my house, and I am paying for a lot of it. Luckily, my SIL volunteered her house. But is she helping to plan it? OH HELL NO. Just invited a bunch of people to someone elses house and leaves it for everyone else to manage. Honestly, the day revolves around me and not her, so she doesn't care. I hope she doesn't ask me to be in her bridal party if she ever finds a man willing to propose. She makes me sad. That is all.

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Just Said Yes May 2015
Cindy · on July 2, 2015 at 12:08 PM
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Nothing could possibly top my MOH, Audrey Connor, Milwaukee, WI. She gave the most jealous, hateful, premeditated speech ever. She was prob on drugs again. Becareful who you pick for your MOH - find someone who respects the position.
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Just Said Yes October 2016
erin · on February 21, 2016 at 11:17 AM
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My mohair is my sister she's married has 3 kids a great husband so of course I ask her to be Mohawk oh yes I would love too. We'll I'm 7 mths from walking down the isle and she can't commit to a dress says the makeup girl is too much money. Well she knew it wasn't gonna be free being in a wedding. I'm not bridezilla at all I just want her to step up to the plate. It's hurtful because it's just the 2 of us. She was jealous when I had my daughter because she has 3 boys.
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Just Said Yes June 2018
Deb · on May 16, 2018 at 2:15 PM
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How did you choose ur maid or honor?
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Just Said Yes July 2019
Lizzy · on April 30, 2019 at 12:39 PM
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Ugh, I feel your pain. I'm getting married in 3 months and this entire process has been such an emotional roller coaster for me since my father passed and I do not have a mother in my life. I decided to ask my sister to be my MOH because we were close for such a long time. It has turned out to be the biggest mistake. She literally couldn't care less about my wedding or this process. She hasn't asked me one thing about it nor has she accompanied me to any wedding related appointments. She didn't and doesn't plan on throwing me a bridal shower or a bachelorette party. She has not been there for me in the slightest. I finally built up the courage to call her out on it and her response - nothing. She didn't even bother to respond. It was like she didn't care. It has really caused me a lot of pain. My feelings are hurt and I have cried several times over it. I suppose I could understand if we lived in different places but we live in the same city, a mere 20 minutes a part. My fiance's sister and cousin (both of whom are BM's) have been more supportive than my own sister and they live 8 hours away! I don't know whether I should try to talk to her again about this or let it go and distance myself after the wedding. This whole thing has really opened my eyes.
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