I am in a dilemma of whether or not I should include a sister in law as a bridesmaid (my fiancé’s brother’s wife). My fiancé has two brothers, who he wants to include in the wedding party. I get along very well will one of the wifes and would love to include her as a bridesmaid. I don’t get along as well with the other wife. She often says and does things that hurt my feelings but I’ve learn to let things go because I have learned that she suffers from mental health challenges. But I’m not close to her.
I told my future mother in law who I wanted to include and she has tried to convince me to include the other wife as well. She said that if she isn’t included that she thinks that her son’s wife won’t want her husband to be a groomsman (my fiancé brother). In my opinion, I feel like he’s an adult and should decide on his own whether he wants to be in his brother’s wedding or not. The sister in law that I get along with said I should include her as well because she’s afraid of how the other sister in law will react both towards me and herself.
Anyways, should I stick to what I want and only include those who are closest to me. Or should I invite her out of obligation and to avoid drama.
What would you do?
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