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Ashley
Dedicated June 2020

Would you go?

Ashley, on April 3, 2020 at 8:17 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 123

Hey ladies! I just want some opinions. Would you go to a reception only (next year) if you weren't invited to the ceremony (in June) because of this virus?! FH doesn't think people would come. I just wanted ro know if you were a guest how else you feel?
Hey ladies! I just want some opinions. Would you go to a reception only (next year) if you weren't invited to the ceremony (in June) because of this virus?! FH doesn't think people would come. I just wanted ro know if you were a guest how else you feel?

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  • Natalie
    Devoted December 2021
    Natalie ·
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    I would be fine with it. Honestly, even without the unfortunate pandemic, I wouldn’t be offended if I was ever just invited to the reception.
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  • Taneshia
    Savvy August 2020
    Taneshia ·
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    People will attend. I had a cousin get married last year and had a reception February 2020. The event was well attended. People love celebrating love! I am having a private ceremony and will have the reception in June for a larger group.
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  • Chelsea
    Expert July 2021
    Chelsea ·
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    Due to the situation now I would think everyone would go. That’s the best part is the party after lol
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  • MeetTheRobinsons
    Devoted June 2020
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    Yes due to the current circumstances...
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  • Stephanie
    Super June 2019
    Stephanie ·
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    That's actually a pretty cool idea because by then you'd be celebrating your first year together so it's like a milestone celebration as well!
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    Judith ·
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    If I would have gone to their wedding ceremony, if invited, then I would go to any delayed reception, and consider it their wedding, whether they did any vows, or just started by saying we we're married July first, and everyone cheering. Sometimes I would have sent a gift when I heard there would be a wedding. If not I would send it just before the reception. . . . This used to happen when fewer people flew great distances. And still does for couples from distant places, when it does not make sense to move huge numbers of people, when just the couple can go visit and have a reception just months later. Do it!
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  • Hanna
    VIP June 2019
    Hanna ·
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    Yes of course I would still go! I think people will absolutely understand given the circumstances

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  • C
    Dedicated April 2020
    Cindy ·
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    Yes, I would attend. Sometimes people can't travel to attend the wedding, but enjoy having a different date to celebrate with the new Mr. And Mrs.
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  • Jamie
    Beginner June 2020
    Jamie ·
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    My Fiancé and I were already thinking of doing a small ceremony and reception for our July wedding. We were planning on doing something in the fall for everyone else in our lives that not immediate family
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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
    Meghan ·
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    Yes. If I was not invited to a wedding during a global pandemic, I would completely understand! I would be excited to be thought of, the following year, to celebrate the couples marriage.

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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I would go! my friends threw a reception only wedding celebration last year. they had an elopement months prior. no one really thought much of it

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  • Amanda
    Dedicated June 2021
    Amanda ·
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    I would definitely go, especially given the circumstances!

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    Dedicated September 2021
    Sarah ·
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    I would totally go, and a vow renewal sounds like a great idea. Kind of like a mini-wedding.


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  • Tiffany
    Dedicated August 2020
    Tiffany ·
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    I would attend!! Do a vow renewal next year!
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  • Helen
    Beginner September 2020
    Helen ·
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    I would 100% go.

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  • Noelle
    Just Said Yes December 2020
    Noelle ·
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    Absolutely I would come, it wouldn't be the couples fault that they had them separate. And I would still want to celebrate their marriage with them. It is more important that everyone is safe and healthy, than whether or not I get to go to a traditional wedding or something a little bit less traditional.

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  • Vanessa
    Savvy November 2020
    Vanessa ·
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    If I were having a local wedding I would make my reception invite only and allow everyone to attend the ceremony, this was before the pandemic. I think I’d be understanding as your guest and be elated to attend your reception.
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  • Sabrina
    Dedicated September 2020
    Sabrina ·
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    Yeah my FH and I both said we would go. We were thinking about doing that too actually since our wedding is a small destination one.


    If this is to keep your original date I would do that, small ceremony and larger reception the following summer on your one year anniversary.
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  • H
    Devoted August 2023
    Hhh ·
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    Absolutely! We considered doing a small destination wedding and just a reception at a later date just so we could truly enjoy our party-so this would be ok even without this pandemic!
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  • Kaytlyn
    Just Said Yes October 2021
    Kaytlyn ·
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    I would go as well, most people I feel would understand your reasoning behind it. A lot of my other friend brides are doing this exact thing and their family and friends appreciate it!
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