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Just Said Yes December 2019

Would you hire a straight, male wedding coordinator?

E, on February 14, 2018 at 6:30 PM Posted in Planning 0 42
Why or why not?

He used to be a wedding photographer, would that make a difference in your decision?

Your opinions are appreciated.
Thank you. Smiley smile

42 Comments

Latest activity by AbeFroman, on February 15, 2018 at 2:20 PM
  • Mrs_Jenkins
    Devoted June 2018
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    Why would that matter? If he's good at his job, then why not?



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  • Katie
    Devoted September 2018
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    Why would gender or sexual preference matter if the person is good at their job?
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  • earias
    Champion December 2017
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    I don't understand why this is a question. I would hire anyone if they are qualified for the job and their price was affordable; to do otherwise would be sexist and hypocritical.

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  • Sarah
    Master June 2016
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    I didn’t ask any of my vendors what their sexual orientation is so I’m not sure why that would even be a factor in the decision making process.
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  • E
    Just Said Yes December 2019
    E ·
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    Only 2% of wedding coordinators our mail, so I'm trying to figure out why that is.
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  • Sarah
    Master June 2016
    Sarah ·
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    I didn’t even know mail could get a job. It’s nice to know the wedding industry is open to packages and letters being coordinators.
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  • Mcskipper
    Master July 2018
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    Huh? Yes of course, I can’t even begin to imagine why something like that would matter
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  • E
    Just Said Yes December 2019
    E ·
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    I is there a perception that male wedding coordinators are not as good as female wedding coordinators? Why do male wedding coordinators only make up 2% of the total wedding coordinators in the US?
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  • FutureMrsThompson
    Dedicated April 2018
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    As long as they are qualified and do their job well it should not matter what their gender or sexual orientation are

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  • AbeFroman
    Devoted October 2018
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    Just because it's a female dominated field, that doesn't mean than men can't do it. The large majority of mechanics are male - does that mean that you wouldn't take your car to a female mechanic?

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  • Casey
    VIP December 2018
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    I can’t believe this is actually a question 😂
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  • E
    Just Said Yes December 2019
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    I'm not buying that argument; I want to know what the real perceptions are of male wedding coordinators, there has to be a reason there are so few in the industry.
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  • Mrs.hays
    VIP April 2018
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    I don’t see why it would matter at all.
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  • MrsBlah
    Devoted September 2016
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    Why would this matter? My wedding planner (and DOC) was a straight guy. I had no issues.

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  • MrsBlah
    Devoted September 2016
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    There may be few in the industry because there may be few straight males that want to do wedding planning. I want to think couples are not this close minded that they think someone's gender and/or sexual orientation determines talent.

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  • Xandria
    VIP December 2018
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    This legit made me snort with laughter. In what I have to assume is a joke thread.

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  • H
    Dedicated October 2019
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    BAHAHAHA. I love this so much 😂😂

    OP... I honestly can’t believe this is a serious question. I’m a speech therapist - a field dominated by women. There were two males in my program. They took the same classes as me and passed the same state exam. Would you question their credentials? Or ask them “why are you doing this? You’re not a woman...” I’m sorry. Get with the times.
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  • Catti Labelle
    VIP July 2018
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    OP, why are you asking this question?
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  • H
    Dedicated October 2019
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    This.

    👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
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  • Tracy
    Dedicated October 2018
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    How do you even know he id straight? I hope you didn't ask him that. Also, to answer your question, why wouldn't I hire him if I liked his work? Your description gave us no reason not to.
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