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Rebecca
Master October 2025

Would you rather... change your date or change your venue?

Rebecca, on October 23, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Planning 251

You finally found the perfect venue after hours of searching, but they don’t have your dream wedding date available. What would you do?? Would you rather... change your date or change your venue? Next Question: Would you rather... invite all of your co-workers, or all of your parents' friends? ...

You finally found the perfect venue after hours of searching, but they don’t have your dream wedding date available. What would you do??

Would you rather... change your date or change your venue?


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Next Question: Would you rather... invite all of your co-workers, or all of your parents' friends?

251 Comments

  • M
    Super October 2018
    Michelle ·
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    Change the venue. The date we picked was our 6th dating anniversary, so it was special to us. The venue was nice but not more important than the date
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  • Breanna
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Breanna ·
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    Change the date.
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  • Jessica
    Savvy October 2020
    Jessica ·
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    We did change our date FOR the venue! I had always dreamed of a spring wedding but we found a venue and happened to tour it as the leaves were changing and decided to move our wedding to October. My fiancé had been pushing for a fall wedding and I finally agreed after seeing this venue.

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  • J
    Just Said Yes June 2019
    Jelyssa ·
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    I would change the date as long as it was still the day of the week that I want
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  • Candi
    Super September 2024
    Candi ·
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    Venue. We are renewing and I don't want to flex on date,

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  • Teresa
    Dedicated October 2019
    Teresa ·
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    Our venue. We both love Halloween and October is our favorite month, along with fall being our favorite season!

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  • Emily
    Beginner April 2020
    Emily ·
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    Change the date, I am more focused on finding the perfect venue

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  • Latonya
    Devoted April 2021
    Latonya ·
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    Omg. That would totally depend and it would depend on the circumstance.

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  • Jennifer
    Super December 2019
    Jennifer ·
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    The date. You dont really have a date until you have a venue booked, so no one else would be affected (ie there shouldnt be any save the dates yet if you are still looking for a venue). And we did change our date to make it easier on our church.

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  • GraceanJohnny
    Just Said Yes November 2019
    GraceanJohnny ·
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    Venue. Our date is perfect!
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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    Good point! I didn't think about how it would effect the day of the week! What day is your preference?

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  • Patti
    Dedicated August 2019
    Patti ·
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    Date, I love the venue
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  • K
    Just Said Yes April 2019
    Kimberly ·
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    I would rather change Venue
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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
    Laura ·
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    At this point either. Our date isn't set in stone and we only have a venue we're interested in. I have to wait to have the funds to put down to get it. I have a date I like, but i'm going to see what the venue has available.

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  • Destiny
    Just Said Yes April 2019
    Destiny ·
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    Definitely change the Date nothing special about our date we set just a good time to be able to take a vacation and celebrate our anniversary is all
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  • Mrscolón
    Super September 2019
    Mrscolón ·
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    Our date! I love our venue, and our date doesn't hold a specific meaning (yet).

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  • K
    Dedicated September 2022
    Kpar ·
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    We've picked a tentative date, but we'd definitely change the date rather than venue. It's already been tough to find options for food allergies. So if we find a venue and caterer that align on the same dates, that's how we'll select our date

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  • D
    Beginner October 2019
    Dorian ·
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    I would definitely change the date before i look for another venue


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  • Kendra
    Devoted September 2019
    Kendra ·
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    I would change my date in this case. I’m lucky that I am having my wedding at my parents house so it is always available.
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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    That's so nice! How many guests are you two inviting?!

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