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Rebecca
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Would you rather... change your date or change your venue?

Rebecca, on October 23, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Planning 251

You finally found the perfect venue after hours of searching, but they don’t have your dream wedding date available. What would you do?? Would you rather... change your date or change your venue? Next Question: Would you rather... invite all of your co-workers, or all of your parents' friends? ...

You finally found the perfect venue after hours of searching, but they don’t have your dream wedding date available. What would you do??

Would you rather... change your date or change your venue?


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Next Question: Would you rather... invite all of your co-workers, or all of your parents' friends?

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251 Comments

  • C
    Savvy May 2019
    Crystalyne ·
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    Change my venue! I'm keeping my wedding on Star Wars day.

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  • Erika
    Expert April 2019
    Erika ·
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    Change my Date. My Venue is so amazing!!!

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  • Jazmin
    Super April 2019
    Jazmin ·
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    Change the date! We actually changed our date because our photographer wasn't available on the date we picked.

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  • Jennifer
    Master September 2018
    Jennifer ·
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    We changed our date for our venue that double booked us and didn't tell us until 6 months after booking Smiley angry .

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    Super March 2019
    Bailey ·
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    I would change my venue. We’ve waited 6 years for this date. We wanted to keep our same anniversary, and this is the first time it’s fallen on a Saturday since we started dating.
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  • GabbiV
    Dedicated October 2019
    GabbiV ·
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    Change the date! My venue is perfect

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  • Cierra
    Savvy June 2019
    Cierra ·
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    Neither of them are too important to us, but probably the date.
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  • LaLa
    Devoted October 2019
    LaLa ·
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    I would change the date if there were no other compromises. It's hard to find a venue you love everything about!

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  • SummerBrideInAutumn
    VIP October 2019
    SummerBrideInAutumn ·
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    Luckily I found my perfect venue and they had the perfect date! But I wouldn't definitely change the date instead of the venue.

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    Just Said Yes June 2019
    Asha ·
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    My venue is in my backyard so a date change would be easy for me but unnecessary
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  • FutureMrsG
    Savvy June 2019
    FutureMrsG ·
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    I would change the date but only to have more time to pay for the wedding of our dreams
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  • Adriana
    Dedicated July 2019
    Adriana ·
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    Date for sure! As it stands right now, our venue is owned by my FH’s family so it is free!
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    Dedicated June 2019
    Stephanie ·
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    Change my date. I had To change my date twice, not because of my venue but because of my guests. I didnt End up with the date i wanted But I’ve accepted it.
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  • Stephanie
    Devoted October 2019
    Stephanie ·
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    Change the date, our wedding date doesn’t hold any important significance to us so if we had the perfect venue with all we want then changing the date wouldn’t be the end of the world
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  • V
    Beginner May 2019
    Victoria ·
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    Changing the venue since so much is already scheduled on that day

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  • V
    Beginner May 2019
    Victoria ·
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    I wish i knew of a better venue for the wedding and the dance that wont cost me a years wages in Cedar Rapids

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  • Angel
    Beginner September 2019
    Angel ·
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    Change the venue! Are day is more important then we're we have it Smiley heart
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  • Natalie
    Savvy June 2019
    Natalie ·
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    Change our date to sooner. June 2019 seems so far away, but happy we have the time to plan for what we want.

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  • Niray
    Dedicated June 2019
    Niray ·
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    Change my date it doesn’t have any meaning to us. It was just the one of the only Saturdays the venue had available for the summer.
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  • Sharita
    Beginner March 2020
    Sharita ·
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    Personally for us the date isn’t negotiable because it’s so meaningful. It would be the venue.
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