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Would you rather... change your date or change your venue?

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Rebecca, on October 23, 2018 at 11:05 AM

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You finally found the perfect venue after hours of searching, but they don’t have your dream wedding date available. What would you do?? Would you rather... change your date or change your venue? Next Question: Would you rather... invite all of your co-workers, or all of your parents' friends? ...

You finally found the perfect venue after hours of searching, but they don’t have your dream wedding date available. What would you do??

Would you rather... change your date or change your venue?

Next Question: Would you rather... invite all of your co-workers, or all of your parents' friends?

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Master October 2025
Rebecca · on October 24, 2018 at 3:07 PM
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Does your date hold any special significance to you and/or your FS?!
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Beginner December 2019
Tracy · on October 24, 2018 at 3:13 PM
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Change the venue. The date is special
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Master October 2025
Rebecca · on October 24, 2018 at 3:20 PM
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That's so awesome to hear!! Was it one of the first ones you looked at or did it take you a while to find?!
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Felicia · on October 24, 2018 at 3:41 PM
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The date. The date has no special meaning, but a beautiful venue to have that special day in is a desire. I habe certain decorative ideas in mind and want things just right.
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Rachel · on October 24, 2018 at 3:46 PM
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The date! We were going to elope until we found and fell in love wit our venue!
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Beginner November 2021
Melissa · on October 24, 2018 at 3:47 PM
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That's a tough one, but I would probably change the date, as long as we have the same number, the month is all we will negotiate.
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Alli · on October 24, 2018 at 4:22 PM
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Change the venue for sure
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Beginner March 2020
Clarissa · on October 24, 2018 at 4:44 PM
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Rebecca, It was the third option that I found when I was researching venues and when I saw it and was looking through the information on their website, I immediately just felt like that was the venue for us.
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Savvy April 2020
Amanda · on October 24, 2018 at 5:14 PM
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I'd rather change the venue because we would have already sent out Save the Date cards.
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Beginner October 2019
Olivia · on October 24, 2018 at 5:58 PM
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Venue is where he asked me to be his girlfriend after what seemed like a lifetime of just dating. Definitely change the date.
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Dedicated April 2019
Cheryl · on October 24, 2018 at 7:02 PM
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Change the date
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Savvy August 2019
Katie · on October 24, 2018 at 7:31 PM
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Change the venue if necessary.
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Dedicated August 2019
Gabrielle · on October 24, 2018 at 7:55 PM
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I would rather change the venue. It's just a place, there will always be another place to go to.
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Savvy October 2019
Caitlyn · on October 24, 2018 at 8:12 PM
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The date... I chose my venue and then my date based off of their availability... the only attachment to my date is that it is my future wedding date haha
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Shonda · on October 24, 2018 at 8:31 PM
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Venue for me. I'd definitely change my venue to keep my date. A venue would have to have EVERYTHING Im looking for and still be what I consider affordable in order for me to change my date.
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Just Said Yes June 2019
Dorinda · on October 24, 2018 at 9:33 PM
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Change venue
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Just Said Yes February 2020
Angelita · on October 24, 2018 at 10:54 PM
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Change the venue. The date is important to us.
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Dedicated April 2019
Krystal · on October 25, 2018 at 3:00 AM
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I love my venue, I would like to change my date. I wanted a winter wedding, but did spring instead since it made more sense for everyone. I would change my date to January 23rd because it's so nice.
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Just Said Yes April 2019
Melissa · on October 25, 2018 at 7:21 AM
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If it's the perfect venue then I would change the date. If I wasn't happy with the venue then I would change it!
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Dedicated August 2019
Katelyn · on October 25, 2018 at 9:36 AM
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As long as the date was close to my original date I would be willing to change that for a dream venue. But if it would involve waiting like a year then I would be open to other venues.
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