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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Would you rather... change your venue or your wedding date?

Lynnie, on April 9, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Planning 151

This one's a tough choice!! Would you rather change your wedding date and keep your venue, or change your wedding venue to keep your date? Which would you choose? Next Question: Would you rather have a videographer or a second photographer? Back to the Beginning: Would You Rather?

This one's a tough choice!! Would you rather change your wedding date and keep your venue, or change your wedding venue to keep your date?

Which would you choose?


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Next Question: Would you rather have a videographer or a second photographer?

Back to the Beginning: Would You Rather?

151 Comments

  • Maria
    Super October 2019
    Maria ·
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    At this point...venue since everything is tied to the date Smiley smile Neither the location or date is super sentimental so I'm flexible!

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  • ReNita
    Savvy February 2020
    ReNita ·
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    Neither! We love our date and the venue. He actually picked the venue which meant a lot to me. I’d seen the venue twice but when he said okay it was perfect. The date is something we love and anyone that hears it says it’s nice or cute.
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  • A
    Just Said Yes March 2020
    Aliza ·
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    Keep the date change the venue
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  • Niray
    Dedicated June 2019
    Niray ·
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    Change out wedding date
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  • Kristen
    VIP June 2020
    Kristen ·
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    The date definitely! My venue is so perfect
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  • Shelby
    Dedicated February 2020
    Shelby ·
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    Keep the date, change the venue!
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  • S
    Dedicated June 2020
    Shannon ·
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    We changed our venue! The first one we looked at I fell in love and couldn't imagine it being anywhere else but our day was taken and they asked if we would wanna do it two weeks earlier and I hated saying no but our wedding date is my grandparents anniversary and it's to special to give up!
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  • VIP September 2019
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    I would change our date. I wanted a June wedding but the venue was a steal and only had 3 Saturdays available
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  • Nique
    Devoted July 2019
    Nique ·
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    Venue we've changed the wedding date 3 times already and refuse to change it again
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  • Katherine
    Expert July 2019
    Katherine ·
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    I mean logistically if we changed one we'd have to change the other.

    I am trying to thing of an answer, but I just can't hypothetical about it for some reason! If we changed the venue, it would mean we'd loose our great discount, but if we changed the date, we'd lose our discount which is only for the months of July and August...

    Okay. I have decided. If we had to change, it would be the venue. But I'm glad we don't have to!

    I'm not attached to the date itself necessarily, but as someone who works in a school, a July wedding is perfect to use June for planning, and the second half of July/ beginning of August to honeymoon and then enjoy married life

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  • Tracey
    Savvy April 2021
    Tracey ·
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    Nope .. my venue and date is perfect!
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  • Katherine
    Expert July 2019
    Katherine ·
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    Are y'all getting married on leapday?! I see that you have Feb 2020.

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  • Tracey
    Savvy April 2021
    Tracey ·
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    Photographer is more important to me ...
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  • F
    Super April 2019
    Future Mrs. Polar Bear ·
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    Neither, but if I had to choose I would change wedding date to be October instead of April. I love my venue!

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  • Destanie
    Just Said Yes August 2020
    Destanie ·
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    Right now we’re still early in the process so we’re really flexible with the date while we’re looking at different venues!
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  • Heather
    Devoted December 2019
    Heather ·
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    Change the date, our venue is so awesome! Smiley smile
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  • Madelyn
    Expert August 2019
    Madelyn ·
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    Venue! I love our venue but it wasn’t our #1 choice!
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  • Sarah Eliza
    Dedicated May 2022
    Sarah Eliza ·
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    Just confirmed our venue! I wouldn't change either! Unless we could get a Saturday wedding, but May next year is perfect and they only had one day in May available!

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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
    Meghan ·
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    Change our date and keep our venue. We decided we wanted our venue and asked what they had available in October. That is how we chose out date. The location and the month was more important to us than the actual date itself.

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  • Brianna
    Devoted April 2025
    Brianna ·
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    This one is definitely hard to choose. I would have to say wedding date just because we're not set on it yet
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