Would you rather... cut the shower or the bach party?

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I totally agree FutureMrsColón! You make a great point here!

Be sure to come back and share a BAB (back and bacheloretted) post with us here, in the Community! We can't wait to see what your sister plans for you!

We would definitely cut the bachelor party its not in our plans anyway we don't drink or party like that

I would cut the bachelorette party, because we are saving up to build a house. So I want a bridal shower to help us get started with our house. Plus it is a way for me to invite and celebrate with people that I can’t afford to invite to the wedding!

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Hi Kendra! Welcome to WeddingWire and congrats on your engagement!

Makes perfect sense, and your home definitely comes first in the grand scheme of things Are you choosing to have a smaller wedding and a bigger shower?

View Quoted Comment Yeah that is the plan! We are trying to have as small of a wedding as we can, but still beautiful!

Cut the bridal shower, in my case I’m doing it mostly for my family and my parents friends. I’ve always dreamed of the tacky genitalia themed Bach trip!

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Haha! Hi Audrey! Welcome to WeddingWire and congrats on your engagement! That's so great to hear, I hope that your bach party is everything you've dreamed of & that it's a ton of fun!

I would cut the Shower.

I would definitely want to cut the shower. I don't see a need for it unless we are just bringing everyone together and celebrating with food, drinks, and games because I'm not registering anywhere.

I honestly don't care for either of them but if I had to choose, I would rather cut out the shower

I would want to cut the shower because events like that make me nervous. I am doing a "Bachelorette party" but we are going to a wine bar and then going to the symphony! It's perfect.

We are cutting on bachlor/bachlorette parties. We dont really need them. I know for him he is soing something small and for me I am having a cooking/ movie night with my girls (with lots of cookie dough ) Both my mom and fmil are planning on throwing us a big shower. FH and I are deffinately okay with that

Bachelorette party. I could live without it.

The shower, we're not having one because families are on strained finances.

Cut the shower not the back party love time with my girls.

UGH this is hard!! I’d go with bridal shower since my fiancé and I already live together and have a lot of the stuff that is usually registered for. I also have so much fun when I go out with my girls! I don’t think I’d be willing to do without the bachelorette party.

Shower, I don’t know if anyone would even come to that but ik for sure that I’m having a Bach party with some friends and family

That is such a tough one because I really enjoyed both of mine. But I would cut the shower if I had to choose.

I would hand it over to my in laws.

Bach party