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Maren
Champion October 2021

Would you rather... cut the shower or the bach party?

Maren, on October 23, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Parties and Events 220

If you had to choose - which pre-wedding party would you rather cut? Which celebration do you think you could live without? Would you rather... skip the shower or the bach party? Photo from WeddingWire’s An NYC Bachelor Party Itinerary Next question: Would you rather... hand over complete planning...

If you had to choose - which pre-wedding party would you rather cut? Which celebration do you think you could live without?

Would you rather... skip the shower or the bach party?


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Photo from WeddingWire’s An NYC Bachelor Party Itinerary


Next question: Would you rather... hand over complete planning control to your parents or your future in-laws?

220 Comments

  • Saraí
    April 2019
    Saraí ·
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    Oh no Smiley sad you can just have like a get together at some place and just celebrate with your bridal party.

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    Beginner October 2018
    FutureMrsB ·
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    Cut the Bach party. Not into drinking, partying and male strippers.

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  • Shelby
    Beginner August 2020
    Shelby ·
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    You'll save money that way. Smiley smile
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  • Maren
    Champion October 2021
    Maren ·
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    Hi Rachael! That's great! Nashville will be a great bachelorette destination! Smiley heart

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  • N
    Beginner May 2020
    Nicole ·
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    I would cut both. We are almost both 30 and we are not big on going out on that scene.
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  • Maren
    Champion October 2021
    Maren ·
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    Hi LIbrabride1013! Have you planned your all-girls weekend getaway yet? Smiley heart

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  • Maren
    Champion October 2021
    Maren ·
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    Makes perfect sense, Future Mrs. Mistretta! Great reasoning, too. Smiley heart

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  • Katherine
    Just Said Yes October 2021
    Katherine ·
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    Cut the bachelorette party
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  • Kayla
    Savvy June 2019
    Kayla ·
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    Hmmm....having to choose between the two I would say cut the Bach parties. We don’t NEED the shower or parties, but our friends and family are having certain household items monogrammed with our unity initials (kSc), and I guess I kinda like getting gifts🤦🏼‍♀️
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  • S
    Beginner December 2019
    Sarah ·
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    Both we don't need them.
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  • P
    Just Said Yes November 2018
    Pamela ·
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    Both! I'm having neither

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  • J
    Beginner June 2019
    Jiyati ·
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    I would cut out the bridal shower. I don't understand the purpose of that. So tame... no fun.

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  • B
    Just Said Yes January 2020
    Brinda ·
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    Cut the shower! People can mail me gifts lol
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  • A
    Super September 2019
    Anna ·
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    Bachelorette. I don’t like to party and don’t have many that would with me
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  • Abby
    VIP March 2019
    Abby ·
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    I'd cut the shower before the bachelorette party even though my party will be super simple.
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  • F
    Super April 2019
    Future Mrs. Polar Bear ·
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    Actually, we're skipping both. We're also not doing a rehearsal dinner, or dinner with out-of-town guests.

    I've got a feeling my MOH will throw a small bach. party for me, but mostly it will be us painting with some soda, snacks, and a very few other friends. Who knows what my FH will do. He still hasn't decided who his best man will be, ha! He's got time, though.

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    Beginner September 2019
    Carmen ·
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    I would turn things over to my future in-laws, they are all party people & I know they throw a lot of good parties. I would put all that responability on my parents.

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  • Ginsteeca
    Expert June 2019
    Ginsteeca ·
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    We're not doing either one of those.

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  • Lauren
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Lauren ·
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    Shower definitely, with a 3 year old I don’t get friend time very much
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  • C
    Beginner September 2019
    Carmen ·
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    I gotta have a Bachorlette Party!!!!! forget the shower.

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