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Maggie
Champion October 2025

Would you rather... get married two months or two years from now?

Maggie, on October 23, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Planning 155

Wedding planning can be difficult, but would it be harder to speed it up or slow it down? Would you rather get married in two months or two years from today? (Or this past weekend if you don’t want to get married on a Tuesday.) Thanks for playing Would you rather? Round Two! Make sure to check out...

Wedding planning can be difficult, but would it be harder to speed it up or slow it down? Would you rather get married in two months or two years from today? (Or this past weekend if you don’t want to get married on a Tuesday.)


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155 Comments

  • Nett
    Devoted January 2019
    Nett ·
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    Two months because I’m actually getting married in a little less than three months. I can’t wait to be his wife.Smiley love
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  • Katelyn
    Dedicated August 2019
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    2 months hands down!

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  • Deborah
    Dedicated August 2020
    Deborah ·
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    Two years. Gives you more options, and the fact of the matter is, my fiance and I have already been together 8 years as of this November. Also, that's my timeline since I still need to finish PA school, take my boards, and get a job.

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    Beginner March 2020
    Clarissa ·
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    2 years. We've been engaged for almost 3 years and just started working on planning our wedding. We are currently planning on a year from now and I'm already stressing and freaking out lol We might end up pushing up to 2 years from now because of money and also my venue.

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  • N
    Dedicated July 2021
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    I would rather get married 2 months
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  • Lisa
    Dedicated November 2019
    Lisa ·
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    TWO MONTHS!!!! If I had my way I would be gettin married a lot sooner than I am. But out of respect for being a live in primary caregiver I need to giver time to find a replacement and transition.

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  • Hannah
    Devoted July 2019
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    2 months. If those were the only two options, I'd take eloping over having to wait another two years just to marry the man of my dreams.

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  • Ciara
    Dedicated June 2019
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    2 months. I’m already waiting a year and a half as it is. I wouldn’t want to add another 2 years to that..
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  • Para
    Beginner May 2019
    Para ·
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    I would say two months.

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  • Maggie
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    Maggie ·
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    I think that's a completely fair idea, Kyleigh! I'm glad you're getting a second chance!

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  • Maggie
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    Maggie ·
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    Hoo dog, you sound like a busy lady, Deborah!!

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  • Maggie
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    Maggie ·
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    Ahh, how exciting, Nett!!! Is it beginning to feel real?

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  • T
    Beginner May 2019
    Tara ·
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    I’d rather get married 2 months from now because I dislike waiting. You may want to call and price out your reception venue/church (if applicable) DJ, Photographer and/or videographer, officiant, etc, to ensure these key elements of your planning for the two months away ceremony are available before you decide. If rushing your planning stresses you out and you don’t mind waiting the two years away deal is ok. One last thing to consider is your age, the womanly time-clock thing for having babies, if you’ve waited until your married or planning on having more, this is something critical to consider. Don’t put your life plans off to accommodate others! It’s your day and your plans, ultimately do what’s best for you n close your eyes and see which timeframe stresses you out less, bing! That’s your winner.
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  • Redgoesblack
    Savvy September 2020
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    Two months. But I guess two years wouldn’t matter. It’s already been 5 so what’s the difference! Lol
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  • R
    Beginner October 2019
    Rachel ·
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    2 months! We would probably elope and then splurge and have an extravagant reception!
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    Just Said Yes April 2020
    Raquita ·
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    Two Months. Because we're 9 months out right now and mostly everything is done. Smiley smile

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  • Kelsey Brielle
    Super June 2022
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    I am already getting married in 2 years from now and I am counting every second of everyday. I really wish I could get married in 2 months.

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  • Marissa
    Beginner June 2019
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    Two years. Gives me a ton more time to plan
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  • M
    Beginner June 2019
    Marshanté ·
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    2 months!!!! We did a 2 year engagement and there were more times than I can count where we almost said forget it and just went to the courthouse lol
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  • K
    Just Said Yes January 2019
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    Two months

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