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Lynnie
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Would you rather... have 10 no-shows, or have 10 uninvited guests show up?

Lynnie, on March 21, 2018 at 3:12 PM

Posted in Community Conversations 109

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Which guest fiasco would you rather deal with on your wedding day?

Would you rather... have 10 no-shows, or have 10 uninvited guests show up?


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109 Comments

  • redheadedfury
    Savvy November 2020
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    10 uninvited guests. Makes it more interesting
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  • Tarra
    Beginner June 2018
    Tarra ·
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    10 no-shows. I dont have room for crashers! haha

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  • Jess
    Savvy September 2021
    Jess ·
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    10 extra people
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  • Shevellia
    Just Said Yes July 2021
    Shevellia ·
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    10 no shows I might night like the other 10
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  • Brenda
    Devoted May 2018
    Brenda ·
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    This one is tough for me because it’s between paying for food to get wasted or not having enough food for people to be well fed...
    I guess no shows because potential leftovers?
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  • Jessie
    Devoted June 2018
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    I think I would actually prefer 10 uninvited. I highly doubt it would be people we dislike and there’s enough food. They would just have to stand lol
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  • Kiwibride
    Super November 2018
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    10 uninvited because we can ask them to leave. We chose our list carefully, I'd be disappointed if that many people we're close to just didn't show up
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  • E
    Savvy August 2018
    Eric & Jasmine ·
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    I rather have 10 no shows to be safe
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  • Rochelle
    Beginner December 2018
    Rochelle ·
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    No-shows. While it's a shame to waste money, I wouldn't have any place to put 10 additional people, and without a wedding planner, I wouldn't want the stress of trying to figure it out!

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  • Tobemrs.knudson
    Devoted June 2018
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    I would rather 10 not show up. We already have way to many people for us to be comfortable around.
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  • K
    Dedicated November 2018
    Kira ·
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    10 no shows... More room available in the venue! But would love 10 people show up for the dancing part! If I knew em!
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  • B
    Super March 2019
    Bailey ·
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    I’d pick 10 no shows, because our guest list is huge and I wouldn’t mind less people!
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  • Laura
    Champion June 2010
    Laura ·
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    10 no shows.

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  • LaraLouM
    Super May 2019
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    I think 10 extras. We are having a very small wedding with only very close family and friends and I would be really sad if 10 people didn’t show up as they are all a big part of our lives.
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  • MrsHanlon
    Devoted July 2018
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    10 no shows, a big wedding was not what I had in mind but it's what we've got, so I wouldn't mind a smaller, slightly more intimate crowd.
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  • O
    Master October 2017
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    If I liked the 10 uninvited 🤷🏻‍♀️😂, maybe the 10 no shows for sure
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  • Liana
    VIP March 2017
    Liana ·
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    10 no shows for sure.

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  • M
    Beginner November 2018
    Melanie ·
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    10 no shows
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  • FutureMrsC
    Expert October 2019
    FutureMrsC ·
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    If I had to pick, 10 extras. Obviously uninvited people will not have a place to sit or have dinner available for them but what exactly do wedding crashers think will happen? Invitations and RSVPs exists for a reason. I would instruct the venue security to escort them out, problem solved. On the other hand, 10 people RSVPing and not showing up would make me mad because I paid for your dinner and open bar for no reason.
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  • HoneyImGallone
    Devoted November 2019
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    I think I would rather 10 no shows because I think I would rather waste the money I have already spent than have to possibly spend more money on people that arent even supposed to be there. Plus if someone doesn't show it is rude, but they probably have a reason. If someone shows up uninvited that's just plain rude. And with all the people saying they would tell them to leave, not saying you shouldn't, couldn't, wouldn't, or anything like that, I just personally would be afraid of making a scene and it ruining my day.
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