Would you rather... have a guest show up wearing jeans or a white dress?

I don’t think I’d care but jeans are just sloppy, so I think it’s a bit disrespectful.

White dress. My dress is ivory and I don't really care what other people are wearing to my wedding

I would hate if either one happened, but I can deal with Jeans. Because someone could make it dressy. And I think the guest wouldn't notice it as much.

Since I am getting married on the beach, I would be ok with Jeans. It will be pretty casual and I am not gonna sweat if the guys want to wear jeans. Although a pretty white sundress would be fine too. Either would be ok to me.

View Quoted Comment Your SIL wore her WEDDING DRESS to your wedding?!?! Wow.

I'm having a very casual dress code so if someone's in jeans it's just fine with me. I don't think I would care if anyone else wore white either.

Jeans because its only embarrassing for them, not me

If someone wore jeans they would look out of place but a white dress may bother me slightly more as most would wonder why a person would do that ?

Jeans lol Im only getting married once.

Probably jeans, just because I'd assume the jeans were an honest mistake but the white dress was something with petty intentions toward me.

Also, I'm having a daytime wedding with the reception in the parish Hall, so I'm expecting "nice church clothes" level of formality from the guests and decent jeans and a button down wouldn't be too far off the mark.

View Quoted Comment Exactly! The jeans could be an honest mistake or misunderstanding about the formality. Wearing a white dress to a wedding is such an obvious no no that doing it seems almost spiteful.

View Quoted Comment Right?? This is a story I'm dying to hear.

I couldn't care less about jeans even if we had a very formal wedding because that poor person would feel very out of place and I would be jealous that I cant wear jeans too lol.

Unless it was a full on wedding dress I wouldn't care and even if it was I wouldn't care unless they looked better than me lmao

Jeans. We are getting married in Vegas, everything fairly casual.

Neither one bothers me, but if i had to choose it would be jeans.

As long as the white dress doesn't resemble a wedding dress in anyway, I'm cool.

Not sure which one. I think maybe jeans, cause it looks like there was no effort on their side.

To be honest, I don't care. My FH and the groomsmen are all wearing jeans. If someone shows up in a white dress it doesn't bother me a bit.

This question really bothers me LOL I guess white dress, but that’s cutting it close

Jeans. Some of my guests will probably wear them anyways!