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Lynnie
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Would you rather... have your maid of honor or best man officiate?

Lynnie, on April 9, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Wedding Ceremony 105

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If you had to choose between your maid or honor and best man for officiating duties - who would you choose??


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  • Quinesha
    Savvy December 2019
    Quinesha ·
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    Matron of honor (I don’t have a maid). I trust her words. Who knows what the BM would say 🤦🏽‍♀️😂
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  • Angerra
    VIP August 2019
    Angerra ·
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    Hmmmm that's tough; my MOH is my god-sister and FH's best man is my dad. I would probably have to say my dad, he speaks well!
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  • Nicole
    Super October 2021
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    Maid of Honor, its my sister and I think she'd do a good job balancing it from serious to funny.

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  • Emily
    Beginner June 2020
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    Hmmmm.... best man, because he would make us laugh our butts off

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  • Tonia
    Expert October 2019
    Tonia ·
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    Best man. My MOH is my sister and she is very shy. The BM is a straight ham and he would keep the ceremony fun and light-hearted while being a nutcase at the same time.

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  • Brae
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    I'd love if my moh (my sister) did it, but I don't think she'd be comfortable with that. We're having my brother marry us and its perfect, because all of our siblings are involved (his brother is his bm), and my brother is a great public speaker.
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  • LAQUITA
    Dedicated September 2020
    LAQUITA ·
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    Hard choice
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  • Btbride
    Super August 2019
    Btbride ·
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    Definitely my maid of honor. She's a great public speaker. The best man is my fiance's brother and that is very much not his style, haha!

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  • Krystin
    Expert October 2019
    Krystin ·
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    Best man- and my reasons are kind of weird... like quality of speech and posture lol

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  • Danielle
    Master June 2019
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    I would rather have my MOH officiate. She is very caring and thoughtful. The best man is FH's brother and he is a little self centered.

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  • maryann
    Expert June 2019
    maryann ·
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    Neither (lol) MOH curses to much, and best man stories can linger for hourse, but if I had to choose it would be my MOH( sister) and pray she keeps her potty mouth on a lease... FYI this is why she doesn't wanna give a toast at the wedding (lol) gotta love her

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  • ReNita
    Savvy February 2020
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    This is tough. Both are very funny people and would make it enjoyable. I’d take either one honestly.
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  • ALYSSA
    Devoted September 2019
    ALYSSA ·
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    Ohhh what a tough one! I would say MOH, she and I were on Spring Break together when I met my FH. Technically so was his best man, but he ended up ditching his group to hang with the 2 of us anyway.

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  • Cruz
    Beginner October 2020
    Cruz ·
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    Either 1 is fine
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  • F
    Super April 2019
    Future Mrs. Polar Bear ·
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    Well our dog is our best man and we don't have a MOH, soooo....if I had those and they were humans LOL I'd go with Best Man. He would keep it light and funny. My oldest niece is a bit young to officiate and she'd be my MOH.

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  • Sarah Eliza
    Dedicated May 2022
    Sarah Eliza ·
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    We don't have a maid of honor or best man, it's just the two of us.

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  • Brianna
    Devoted April 2025
    Brianna ·
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    Definitely best man. My cousin is my maid of honor but she's a lot younger than me. Our best man, my fiance's brother, has been to a lot of weddings and is older
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  • Danielle K
    VIP June 2019
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    Oh... dear... god... no... lol ugh I guess best man but it would be so bad lol

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  • Expert August 2020
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    Neither one. They don't like to speak publicly and I can imagine how flubbed up that would go.

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  • Heather
    Expert April 2020
    Heather ·
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    Definitely maid of honor because she is wanting to be a preacher anyway.

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