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Kelly
Legend October 2022

Would you rather... invite 30 guests or 300?

Kelly, on October 23, 2018 at 11:05 AM

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When it comes to the size of your celebration, would you rather keep things intimate or go all out with a big bash? Would you rather invite 30 or 300 guests? Photo by Palos Studio Next Question: Would you rather... change your date or change your venue?

When it comes to the size of your celebration, would you rather keep things intimate or go all out with a big bash?

Would you rather invite 30 or 300 guests?


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415 Comments

  • C
    Just Said Yes June 2019
    Cari ·
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    I’m only inviting 50 guests so deffinately invite 30. I want my wedding to mean something not just be all my distant friends
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    Just Said Yes May 2022
    Amber ·
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    We have around 300 coming and it's fine with us!
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  • Anissa
    Savvy October 2019
    Anissa ·
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    I would like 30, just to help with costs. But both my Fiance and I both have big families so a small wedding isnt really an option.
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  • Kathryn
    Just Said Yes April 2019
    Kathryn ·
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    300, big family, all or nothing.
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  • Jordan
    Dedicated June 2019
    Jordan ·
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    I'm inviting 400 people...

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  • B
    Just Said Yes June 2019
    Brittney ·
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    30 I have never wanted a big wedding.
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  • Angela
    Just Said Yes June 2022
    Angela ·
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    I get anxiety in big crowds. So I'd keep it small.
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  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
    Kelly ·
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    Love the small ceremony! Wow, two different states?! You get to celebrate twice!!

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  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
    Kelly ·
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    Totally understand that, you want it to be the ones your are closest to!

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  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
    Kelly ·
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    Wow that's awesome!! Do you both have big families?

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  • Mrs Sullivan
    Expert June 2019
    Mrs Sullivan ·
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    My family is too big to do just 30, so 300 for sure

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  • Ashley
    VIP December 2018
    Ashley ·
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    30, I can't imagine the costs for 300! We also don't even know 300 people.

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    Devoted September 2019
    Caitlyn ·
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    I would love to invite 30. I have a larger family than my FH, and he has more friends than me. Therefore, our guest list is around 160 and we're expecting 120-140 attendees. Not terrible.

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    Just Said Yes May 2019
    Sharon ·
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    I would rather have 30 guest
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  • JoyAnne
    Just Said Yes August 2019
    JoyAnne ·
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    I would invite 30. Which I am doing now. I only want who are close to me to be there. There's no reason to pay for that many people when you probably dont know most of them.
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    Just Said Yes January 2019
    Chandra ·
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    30, we are up to 60, wanted this many in the beginning of planing now wish we went with the 35...lots of people we hardly ever see...paying $130 per person...smaller is better! but we will have a great time.

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  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
    Kelly ·
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    Not bad at all! I think that's a nice number of guests, not too many where it's overwhelming!

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  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
    Kelly ·
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    That's awesome! Is your guest list mostly family or friends?

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  • JoyAnne
    Just Said Yes August 2019
    JoyAnne ·
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    (Hopefully this reply works) It's mostly family. There are about 7 friends. Family is more than blood though Smiley smile
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  • Lizzy
    Super October 2019
    Lizzy ·
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    We are having 200 but I'd prefer under 100. Unfortunately we both have large families and are over 100 right there
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