Would you rather... your exes show up uninvited, or your fiance(e)'s exes?

My ex's, because I have none

My fiance was my only boyfriend!

Ohhhhhh. This is interesting. Probably FH's ex because they dated for a many years, she would genuinely be happy for him, and she is respectful and would never cause a scene.

Probably ones of my exes. My DH only seriously dated one other girl and she came to his house while he was gone and threatened his family with a knife when he broke up with her...so yeah...

Well, my FW has no exes sooo, that one! Lol!

My ex. He's a decent person he just wasn't someone I should have ever dated. And it really didn't last that long.

His ex tried to get in the middle of our relationship and thought she could break us up (obviously not the case). She still shows up at his work when she comes back to town to try and see him.

One of my FH’s exes will already be at our wedding so it wouldn’t make a big difference to add another one lol

I'm on good terms with most of my exes, so I don't think it would be an issue. FH has an ex that cheated twice, married the guy she cheated with, and she's been trying for a few years now to cheat on her husband with FH. It's ridiculous! She's shown up at his house (we were gone thankfully and the house has since sold), texted him, emailed him, and even tried to message him on Xbox. I think I would bash the woman with my bouquet if she tried to show up at our wedding.

Wow that is a hard one I think his ex as his past relationship was nothing like mine

His ex definitely.

My Fiancé's ex's because I would be less upset about it than my fiancé would be

My exes because God help everyone if his did!

Mine, because there's only one and we could avoid him easily.

I would rather his show. I have always had long serious relationships (years long). His longest relationship before me was 2 months.

View Quoted Comment Awesome answer 😂 Only one of my exes would make me legitimately uncomfortable to see again, but if his ex showed up (she tried interfering in our relationship) she’d most definitely end up regretting it.

His ex. That relationship ended so long ago...

Probably my ex's. They all have the same general chill personality as my FH and (except for one) all ended as best as a break up can. And the one that didn't end well lives in the UK so that's not going to happen. So if mine showed up it would be no big deal.

Now if my FH's ex showed up I probably would be the one that made a scene of her appearance. She really messed up my FH emotionally over the length of their relationship and it really gets me angry how much she hurt him. So her crashing my wedding would not go over well (understatement).

That's a funny question because my fiance's ex is actually coming to our wedding and I'm pretty sure her mother is her plus one.

Mine I guess. One of my exes is coming already. The other wouldn’t be any more awkward.

Mine... most of whom are harmless and departed from on good terms. From what I have heard about his they wouldn't be graceful.

One of my ex’s since my fiancé’s only girlfriend before me is still awkward about the breakup (8 years later).