Would you rather... your exes show up uninvited, or your fiance(e)'s exes?

My FH's exes because he doesn't have any! But it wouldn't be a problem either way because I'm still friends with my ex. But I would be angry that he showed up uninvited the same as I would for any guest that showed up uninvited.

One of my exes, they'd be there not to be spiteful but because me and him were more friends than anything. He'd genuinely care, FH may not see it that way though.

If his ex showed up...she'd be pushed right back out the door lol I don't like her at all

FH's. He never really had a serious relationship so the girls he dated were never really a serious thing, so they would probably just be happy for him. My ex h was abusive and not mentally stable, my other exes were all verbally and emotionally abusive as well and I don't think they'd be there for any good reason.

That's a tough call. He ran into his ex recently and she's still a mean, nasty piece of work. I would kill her with kindness and have her see that he's "upgraded" ( by A LOT) from her.

If my ex-husband showed, I'm not sure how well that would go over. Either ex-H would try to give condolences and "advice" to FH or be totally neutral. I'm afraid there would be a physiclal altercation if exH showed up.

Over all, I wouldn't bat an eye if any of my past XBFs showed up since they're all pretty chill and laid back and would just want to wish us well.

Depends on the ex. I'm friends with a few of them. One of them NO.

My FH only has one ex and I don't want her there because she posts CONSTANTLY about smoking and all that...nah.

FH's exes because he doesn't have any!

My exes would cause a scene and probably get too drunk. Nope.

He didn't really have any long term relationships before me. I suppose if I had to pick one, it might be his, because there doesn't seem to be any hard feelings, and my brother might forcibly remove any of my exes if they showed up!

This is easy. My ex was at our wedding. My ex and my DH are friends. My ex's wife was one of my bridesmaids. So all good for us.

His ex, mine are all on another continent so if any of mine came that would be for drama!

I'd say my fiance's ex. We were acquaintances before FH and I got together, and we get along OK.

My ex ... the less said about him, the better.

My ex. He's my son's father so it would be less weird. It would still suck cause he's a turd but much less awkward.

My exes. My fiance only has one and well that was a fun ending to say the least