Writing Vows

I made bullet points of the different things I wanted to say & that were important for me to get across then I slowly started to put them together. The bullet point format really helped me to format my vows & articulate what I wanted to say

I started an email draft to myself, where I would update it as I thought of things that I wanted to say. So I didn't write my vows in one sitting, though would start to piece them together as I thought of things I wanted to mention (and then reworded them later). You could work on writing just small sections/sentences at a time, so that it's not as overwhelming. Making a list of things you want to include is a good idea! Also search for vow examples on Pinterest, that may help inspire you!

Im trying to decide if we should do our own vows or do traditional. I asked my FH and he said whatever I want, if I want both of us to write our own vows he will and if I want to stick traditional he is cool with that to.

I am writing my own i plan on telling reasons why I love him and what I promise

Hi Eileen!! These articles have some great tips and ideas for how to get yourself past that writer's block:

How to Write Wedding Vows: A Procrastinator’s Guide

A Guide to Unique Wedding Vows: Examples & Tips for Your Own

Here’s How to Write Funny Wedding Vows That Are Actually Funny

Just write from the heart even if it doesn't make sense! Think of this as a draft. Because if you see what you wrote down then you can decide what you want to add or what you want to take out.