Wrong Wedding Party?

Get ready by yourself, and have a sweetheart table. Mix them into the crowd at your reception tables and don't do a bridal party introduction.

This day is about you. You don't have to honor your bridal party if you don't feel like they are honoring you.

On the other hand, plenty of people here will snap at you and say it is not the bridal party's responsibility to help you at all and that all they have to do is show up. I call BS on that- if that was the case, they'd just be a guest.

Act like a guest, get treated like a guest. No special table or shout out for someone who can't be bothered.

Wow that's so messed up that they don't want to get ready with you or come to the rehearsal. To me, that's the main part of being a bridesmaid. Are your bridesmaids family members or friends? If they are family members then you have to let it be so you don't cause family drama which would stress you out more. If they are friends then I'd say if you don't think the friendship is going to continue after this you could consider asking them not to bother coming at all.

Whatever you do, don't get ready alone!!! Find other friends or family members that could be there with you that morning.